They then go to your bedroom to fuck, whilst you sit and listen to your soul mate moaning and cumming with another man.

Sounds whiny and selfish but I want to hear what people think about this type of fantasy, as well as breaking free from a marriage that has very low sex and intimacy.Why do they yearn to see their wives have pleasure (or intimate talking, or even consensually rough treatment) with someone else?

You are also right when you pointed out the fact that I had mentioned that my wife has always been the "good girl" type wife. You go to a party or club together with the intention of leaving together, but your wife disappears and you walk in on her with a random dudes cock in her mouth or pussy. She then tells you all about it when she gets back, except as she tells you she will give you a handjob/sex, getting you off to her adventures with another man and there’s nothing you can do about it. There can be a sexy emotional bonding between the two men, not to mention tangible erotic possibilities. Similarly, if you don’t want to be there, have her take pictures and send you texts updating you on how well she is doing with these professional men.

But having said that I still wear mine unless I am working and I continue to recommend a Hotwife wear one. Watch other porn, expose yourself to practices and kinks you’re currently not engaging in—perhaps things that your wife would be down for.

Once seeing the (frankly overwhelming and mostly unsolicited) response from people online, she was turned off and decided that sex with another guy was off the table. He promises to quit, but then I find half-finished packs in his truck or he comes home smelling like cigarettes.That’s understandable, as so many people are trying to get away from routine in sex, rather than reinforcing it. I’d love to sit in front of the TV and wank myself stupid at the sight my wife getting fucked by several men, all with huge cocks.

He has one FWB, who represents things in his life that I can’t or don’t want to, but I represent things in his life that she would never consider, that he would never want to lose. They can also help you communicate better with your spouse to solidify and prepare your relationship. I have found that if a woman isn't keen on trying something of a kinky sexual nature, it usually is in a man's best interest to let that something go by the wayside.

Meanwhile, your wife does not view you as a sexual partner, and also does not see such adventure (at least the part that includes you), as compatible with her intended lifestyle or marriage. I've had quite a bit of married experience in this arena, marrieddad123, in various forms, roles and iterations and also in the constext of an intimacy averse marriage. Also for the first time I’m finding myself bored in the bedroom with him and I’m struggling with that. In my case, I was not the one driving it - but I agreed to it as an alternative to what wasn't happening in my marriage as was. Take it from there and you should be able to judge from her reaction / response as to taking the conversation further.